why does positive thinking fail part two

I have posted some month ago a post titled "why does positive thinking fail", a lady named Kelly had posted a comment, since the comment and the name are there for all to read, I see no harm in quoting her here. Kelly comment was:

"most people try to think positive while ignoring their life long iceberg of collecting negative evidence. "positive thinking" will then be just sugar coating - ain't gonna full anyone especially your own mind. gotta get the root of the problem, release start fresh, much easier and more effective."

Kelly has made few interesting points one is sugar coating, I call it denial. positive thinking is not about lying to yourself by telling yourself that the problem is not really there.a problem will not go away just by thinking that it is not there or that its really not that bad, she is right there, nothing good will happen. in fact the situation  may even develop into a bigger problem while the individual involved is unprepared to face it for what it is, not a good place to be...

how ever, the root of the problem in many ways come form the mind, so when one like Kelly say just release and start again... well it is a sugar coting of a different kind.

life will always bring challenge about, it is the nature of life, for we have no control on the action of other people and the affect of their action on our lives, just as the weather can bring about all kind of discomfort and just as disease will jump on one out of no where. .   challenges are there to overcome in the best possible way which mean you have learned from the situation and moved on form it as it happened, not some years later after mush lamentation tears and despair.

If you "put it behind you" and start again by simply forgetting what has happened, soon enough a situation will come which will bring about the same problem in a different outfit. you will again and again come across the same situation unless you learn what it is you need to learn form it.

when one has a positive mind, one will surly find the solution to the problem, this will bring about a positive outcome and growth,  it will bring about a healthy change.

now days we have many forms of energy healing, I have studied energy healing for some four years and have practice in a clinic. one can release an iceberg and move on, this is true, however, releasing old emotions and "negative evidence" does not guarantee, that the habit of collecting 'negative evidence' will not create a new iceberg, by the time one will realise that he created a new iceberg, one might be a little less energetic and a little older, starting again without the training of the mind will not help...

I have written before about the difference between the training of the mind to be positive and denial, but for those of you who didn't get to read it I will write a new post on the subject so please look for it.

please feel free to comment, I will respond, I am working on other books and an art exhibition so I haven't been posting on the blog, but I will make more of an effort to check in more often

warm regards

Lilach Tzingoker                        


Positive Thinking with Lilach Tzingoker, Author of Sonny’s Adventure in Mystery Park